How to Say Cheers in Chinese: 干杯 and Drinking Etiquette
Cheers in Chinese is 干杯 (gān bēi) — written 乾杯 in traditional characters, and meaning, literally, "dry the cup." That literal reading is not decorative. In plenty of situations, particularly a Mainland business dinner with 白酒 on the table, 干杯 is an instruction: the glass goes down empty. The word you actually need most as a foreign guest is the other one — 随意 (suí yì), "as you like," which lets you clink glasses, honour the toast, and drink only what you want to drink.
Cheers! — and, when someone means it literally, bottoms up.
干 (乾) = dry, 杯 = cup. First tone on 干: gān, not gàn. Among friends it's an ordinary "cheers"; from a host at a formal banquet, take it literally.
Neutral- 干杯 (gān bēi) is "cheers" — but it means "empty the glass," and at a formal Mainland dinner that's often exactly what's expected.
- 随意 (suí yì) is your escape hatch: "drink as you like." Say 我随意,你干杯 and you've toasted properly without committing to the whole glass.
- Traditional 干杯 is 乾杯, never 幹杯. Simplification merged three characters into 干, and picking the wrong one is a genuinely embarrassing mistake.
- Hold your glass rim below a senior's when you clink. It's the single etiquette detail that gets noticed, and it costs you nothing.
- 以茶代酒 (yǐ chá dài jiǔ), "tea in place of wine," is the socially perfect way to decline alcohol — you're still toasting, just not drinking.
What does 干杯 actually mean?
"Dry the cup." 干 in its traditional form 乾 means dry, and 杯 is a cup or glass; put together they instruct everyone at the table to finish what's in front of them. It's the same logic as "bottoms up," except that English keeps a separate, softer word — "cheers" — for the version where you just clink and sip, and Chinese doesn't. One word covers both, and the register is set by who says it, where, and what's in the glass.
In practice: friends at a hotpot table with beer say 干杯 and take a mouthful, exactly like "cheers." A host at a banquet who stands, addresses the table, and says 干杯 with a small glass of 白酒 in hand means the small glass is going to be empty in a second, and yours should be too. The size of the glass is your best signal — the tiny 白酒 cups exist precisely because they're meant to be emptied in one go, repeatedly.
The 干 / 乾 / 幹 trap — how to write 干杯 in traditional characters
This is worth getting right, because it's the kind of error that makes a tattoo or a wedding sign memorable for the wrong reason. Simplification merged three separate traditional characters into the single form 干:
| Traditional | Simplified | Pinyin | Meaning | In 干杯? |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 乾 | 干 | gān | Dry | Yes — 乾杯 is "dry the cup" |
| 幹 | 干 | gàn | To do, to work; a trunk or main branch | No — and it's also the character behind a common vulgarity |
| 干 | 干 | gān | Shield; to offend or interfere (as in 干扰) | No |
So: in simplified Chinese, write 干杯. In traditional Chinese, write 乾杯. Writing 幹杯 is not a near miss — 幹 is the character used for the four-letter expletive in both Mainland and Taiwanese Mandarin, and it's pronounced with a different tone anyway (gàn, fourth tone). Which brings up the pronunciation half of the same trap: 干杯 is gān bēi with a flat high first tone. Let it fall to gàn and you've said something else. This is a good argument for treating tones as part of the word rather than as decoration — the full system is in our Chinese tones guide.
杯 itself is a friendlier character: 木 (wood) on the left, 不 on the right for sound. Ancient cups were wooden. It's also the measure word for drinks — 一杯茶 (a cup of tea), 两杯啤酒 (two beers) — so it earns its keep far beyond toasting.
The toasts themselves
A toast in Chinese is usually directed at someone rather than broadcast at the room. 敬 (jìng) is the verb — it means to respect, and by extension to toast — so 我敬你一杯 is literally "I respectfully offer you a glass."
Let me toast you — the standard one-to-one toast.
Say this, stand or half-stand, and drink. In speech 一 shifts tone before 杯: you'll hear wǒ jìng nǐ yì bēi.
NeutralThe same toast, to someone senior.
您 (nín) is the respectful "you" — for a boss, a client, an elder, your partner's father. Using it at the right moment buys a lot of goodwill.
Formal"Come on, let's have one" — casual, among friends.
Colloquial and northern-flavoured. Not for a client dinner; perfect at a barbecue table with people your own age.
CasualA toast to our friendship!
为 X 干杯 is the fill-in-the-blank toast frame: 为健康干杯 (to health), 为成功干杯 (to success), 为合作干杯 (to our partnership).
Toast frame随意 — the most useful word at a Chinese banquet
If you take one phrase away from this page, take this one. 随意 (suí yì) means "as you please," and in a drinking context it explicitly releases the other person — or yourself — from finishing the glass. It is not rude, it is not a foreigner's dodge, and Chinese speakers use it on each other constantly. Toasting etiquette guides for Taiwan list 隨意 alongside 乾杯 as one of the two things you say while raising a glass, and it works the same way in Mainland China.
The polite construction is 我干杯,你随意 — "I'll empty mine, you drink as you like" — said by the person offering the toast to the person receiving it. Offering someone 随意 is generous. Claiming it for yourself (我随意) is fine too, especially if you've already had a few, but the generous direction is the one that makes you look like you know what you're doing.
"As you like" — drink as much or as little as you want.
The counterpart to 干杯 and the single most useful word here. Raise the glass, say it, sip.
Essential"I'll finish mine, you drink as you like."
The generous, high-status version of a toast. You take the cost; they get the choice.
Gracious"I'll drain mine first, as a mark of respect."
A set phrase said while emptying your own glass before the other person drinks. Opens a toast to someone senior properly.
Formal"I'll have a little."
A soft, honest middle path when 随意 has already been used and someone is still pouring. Pair it with a hand over the glass.
CasualHow to decline a drink without insulting anyone
Flat refusal — 我不喝酒, "I don't drink" — is understood but blunt, and in a business or in-law setting it can read as declining the relationship rather than the alcohol. The fix is to keep the ritual and swap the liquid. 以茶代酒 (yǐ chá dài jiǔ), "substitute tea for wine," is a recognised, respectable move with centuries behind it: you raise your teacup, you toast, you honour the person, you don't drink alcohol. Nobody loses face.
Reasons help too, and specific ones work better than principled ones. 我开车 (I'm driving) is unarguable and is taken seriously — drink-driving enforcement in China is severe. Medical reasons close the subject. "I'd rather not" invites persuasion; "I'm driving" does not.
"Let me toast you with tea instead of wine."
Usually said as 我以茶代酒,敬您一杯. The classiest way to not drink. Raise the teacup and complete the gesture properly.
Formal"I'm driving" — the reason nobody argues with.
Fuller: 不好意思,我开车,不能喝酒. Drink-driving penalties are strict, so this is accepted immediately.
Neutral"I can't hold my drink."
酒量 is your drinking capacity — a real and commonly discussed quantity. Admitting a low one is modest, not shameful.
Casual"I'm not able to drink" — for medical or religious reasons.
不能 (cannot) closes the conversation in a way that 不想 (don't want to) doesn't. Add 医生说的 ("doctor's orders") and it's final.
NeutralToasting etiquette: the rules that actually matter
Most of what gets written about Chinese banquet etiquette is either obvious or obsolete. These four are neither, and getting them right is genuinely noticed.
- Hold your glass rim lower than the senior person's. When you clink with someone older, more senior, or your host, angle your glass so the rim meets below theirs. Among Chinese speakers it's automatic — which is exactly why a foreigner doing it registers. If the other person lowers theirs too, you'll end up in a brief polite race toward the tablecloth. That's the correct outcome.
- Use two hands, or one hand supporting the other. Right hand on the glass, left fingertips under its base. Same for receiving a pour, and the same gesture as handing over a business card.
- Don't pour your own first. Fill your neighbour's glass before your own — 满上 (mǎn shàng, "fill it up") is what you say while doing it — and someone will fill yours in return.
- Toast in order. The host toasts the table first; then guests toast the host, then work outward by seniority. If you want to toast someone specific, wait until after the host's opening round, then go around the table rather than singling one person out.
You'll also hear rhetoric designed to keep the rounds going — 不醉不归 (bù zuì bù guī, "nobody goes home sober") is the classic. Treat it as theatre, not a contract. The way out is always 随意, always available, and never taken as an insult by anyone reasonable.
Wishes to attach to a toast
A toast usually carries a wish, which is where 祝 (zhù, "to wish") comes in. These are the ones people actually say when they stand up with a glass.
"To your health."
The universal safe toast — family dinners, elders, New Year. Use 您 in place of 你 for someone senior.
All-purpose"To your business — may it flourish."
Standard at a client dinner or a shop opening. Pairs naturally with 恭喜 if there's something to celebrate.
Business"To a happy partnership."
The toast that closes a deal dinner. Short, warm, and about the relationship rather than the contract.
BusinessWhich phrase, when?
| Phrase | Pinyin | When to use | Formality | Region |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 干杯 / 乾杯 | gān bēi | Cheers — and often literally bottoms up | Neutral | Both |
| 随意 / 隨意 | suí yì | Drink as you like — releases you or them from the full glass | Neutral | Both |
| 我敬你一杯 | wǒ jìng nǐ yī bēi | Toasting one person directly | Neutral | Both |
| 我敬您一杯 | wǒ jìng nín yī bēi | Toasting a boss, client, or elder | Formal | Both |
| 我先干为敬 / 我先乾為敬 | wǒ xiān gān wéi jìng | Emptying your own glass first, as respect | Formal | Both |
| 来,走一个 / 來,走一個 | lái, zǒu yī ge | Friends, informal, same generation | Very casual | Both |
| 以茶代酒 | yǐ chá dài jiǔ | Toasting with tea instead of alcohol | Formal | Both |
| 我开车 / 我開車 | wǒ kāi chē | Declining — the unarguable reason | Neutral | Both |
| 我酒量不好 | wǒ jiǔ liàng bù hǎo | Declining modestly among friends | Casual | Both |
| 祝你身体健康 / 祝你身體健康 | zhù nǐ shēn tǐ jiàn kāng | The safe all-purpose toast | Neutral | Both |
Mainland and Taiwan: same word, different table
The vocabulary is shared — 干杯/乾杯, 随意/隨意, 敬 and 以茶代酒 are used across both — but what's in the glass and how hard the round is pushed differ, and that's what changes your evening.
In Mainland China, the formal banquet drink is 白酒 (bái jiǔ), a grain spirit usually between 40% and 60% alcohol, served in small cups precisely so they can be emptied and refilled. This is where 干杯 is most likely to be meant literally and where 随意 earns its place in your vocabulary. Beer (啤酒, pí jiǔ) is the everyday alternative and carries far less obligation.
In Taiwan, beer and 高粱酒 (gāo liáng jiǔ, sorghum liquor — the Kinmen distillery is the famous one) do most of the work, and the whole ritual generally runs lighter: 乾杯 among friends often functions as a plain "cheers" with a mouthful rather than a drained glass, though at a formal table the literal reading still applies. Taiwanese speakers also lean on softening particles, so a raised glass frequently comes with 乾杯啦 rather than a bare 乾杯. If you're reading in traditional characters, you'll see 乾杯 throughout our traditional Chinese reading practice.
Mistakes to avoid
- Saying 干杯 when you meant "cheers." The most common learner error at a formal table. If you're not planning to empty the glass, raise it and say 随意 — or say 干杯 and then actually drain it, which is the other honourable option.
- Writing 幹杯. The traditional form is 乾杯. 幹 is a completely different character, pronounced gàn, and it doubles as a vulgarity — so this misprint is the character equivalent of a very loud typo.
- Refusing without offering a substitute. "我不喝酒" full stop is a closed door. 以茶代酒 keeps the toast, the respect, and the relationship while removing the alcohol, which is what everyone at the table actually cares about.
- Toasting the most important person first, on your own initiative. The host opens. Jumping ahead of them to toast the senior guest reads as either ignorance or a power move. Wait one round.
- Pouring for yourself and no one else. Glasses are filled by other people. If you notice yours is full and your neighbour's isn't, you've been served and haven't reciprocated — pick up the bottle, say 满上, and fix it.
Drinking culture is older than the etiquette around it
Wine and grain liquor have been part of Chinese social life for a very long time, which is why toasting words turn up in classical idioms and not just in phrasebooks. In Drawing a Snake and Adding Feet, a free browser story behind the idiom 画蛇添足, the whole plot hangs on a pot of good wine: friends drinking together (一群朋友一起喝酒聊天) agree that the first to draw a snake wins the pot, and the man who wins it loses it by showing off. The dynamic at that table hasn't changed much since.
Worth knowing, and honestly reported: 干 and 杯 are not high-frequency characters in ordinary reading. Neither appears in the top 150 characters measured across the 658 graded stories in the Literate Chinese catalog (July 2026) — a list whose 150th entry still turns up 203 times. Toasting vocabulary is culturally central and textually rare, which is a good reason to learn it as a set of ready-made phrases rather than waiting to absorb it from reading. For the rest of the table — the dishes, the ordering, the menu — see how to read a Chinese menu and our Chinese food vocabulary guide.
Frequently asked questions
Do I have to finish my drink when someone says 干杯?
At a casual table with beer, no — treat it as "cheers." At a formal banquet, with small cups of 白酒 and a host proposing the toast, yes, that's the expectation. If you don't want to, say 随意 as you raise your glass; it's a recognised, polite answer and nobody takes offence.
Is 干杯 the same in Taiwan?
The word is the same, written 乾杯 in traditional characters. The culture around it is generally lighter — beer and 高粱酒 rather than banquet rounds of 白酒 — so 乾杯 among friends in Taipei more often means an ordinary "cheers" than a drained glass. At a formal Taiwanese table, the literal meaning is still live.
How do I say cheers without drinking alcohol?
以茶代酒 (yǐ chá dài jiǔ) — "tea in place of wine." Raise your teacup, say 我以茶代酒,敬您一杯, and complete the toast exactly as you would with alcohol. It's respectful, it's traditional, and it removes the awkwardness entirely. 我开车 (I'm driving) is the other reason nobody argues with.
What's the difference between 干杯 and 敬酒?
敬酒 (jìng jiǔ) is the act of proposing a toast to someone — the ritual. 干杯 is what gets said in the moment, and what you do with the glass. So you 敬酒 to your host, and in the process you both say 干杯.
Why do people hold their glass lower than mine?
They're showing deference — the lower rim marks the lower status in that exchange. If someone drops their glass below yours, they're honouring you, and the graceful reply is to drop yours further. This gets slightly comic at a big table and everyone knows it; the gesture matters more than winning it.
Is 白酒 the same as baijiu?
Yes — 白酒 (bái jiǔ) is the grain spirit written as "baijiu" in English, typically 40–60% alcohol and served in small cups. Don't confuse it with 白葡萄酒 (bái pú tao jiǔ), which is white wine. Ordering the wrong one at a business dinner is a memorable evening.
